Womens' Health - Womens’ Wealth
by Louise Brogan, Founder and Director, All Money Matters, and co-author of the e-learning program "Your Life - Your Money: Making your life work for you!" Access a demonstration of the innovative and informative e-learning program here
There is an awesome healing power in working on our money issues. I am constantly amazed and surprised by it!
For decades, I have worked with and witnessed 100’s of women (and men for that matter) transform their lives, purely by working on their money issues.
How does it all start?
Well, we at All Money Matters know that money management is a process; being wealthy is a process; living an abundant life is a process. It is not about how much money we have, but rather how our relationship with money runs in our life and how we choose to live in that relationship.
This process has 3 dynamic parts to it. They work together to form a fully rounded, holistic money management, and personal growth, model.
WILLINGNESS.
When we are willing to allow change in our lives, then we are less likely to block the process and words like ‘can’t’ and ‘impossible’ don’t have any real or lasting influence on us. This part is the key because we have the motivation to do whatever it takes.
AWARENESS.
We see how our attitudes and beliefs influence our financial, and life, decisions. When we have this awareness, we can choose our actions and responses, taking responsibility for them and the consequences.
JUST DO IT!
We do whatever is needed to manage our money and grow our financial foundations. Choosing our direction and determining the steps, regularly doing our cash flow, cutting up those credit cards (if need be) and putting a debt repayment or savings and investing plan into place, inspecting that property, speaking to a financial planner, buying those shares on line.
Here’s the crux - we CHOOSE to initiate this process.
Then, by choosing to live this process, each day, we gain greater clarity about ourselves, our purpose, our passion. By choosing to get help and support to accept and transform our limitations, celebrate our strengths and learn further financial skills, we bring back the zing and zest into our life; AND we grow our wealth too!
Now that is empowering!
About Louise Brogan
Louise Brogan is the founder, co-owner and director of All Money Matters and co-author of the life changing e-learning program "Your Life - Your Money! Making your life work for you". Access a demonstration of this innovative and informative e-learning program here !
Her ‘on the job MBA’ started with working on the trading floor of the Stock Exchange at the ripe old age of 15. Once out of school, she studied and worked in the accounting then stockbroking industries, giving her extensive experience in investment advising. She ran her own investment consultancy business and was one of only five women members of the Australian Stock Exchange Ltd.
She went on to purchase her first investment properties in Sydney; had a stint in co-managing the family country pub whilst building it back up for sale; and is currently involved in a 200 unit property development on the
Queensland
Whitsunday
Coast.
She continues to be an involved and passionate investor; managing and growing her share and property portfolios. This, plus years of counselling and psychotherapy study, gives her a solid foundation for an integrated approach to money issues, money management and investing.
Choose a Balanced, StressLess Lifestyle
by Dr Susan Smith Jones, PhD ©
(Excerpt from Susan's book: BE HEALTHY~STAY BALANCED)
Make Stress Your Friend
Stress is a major problem in modern life. Technological advances have increased the pressure to keep busy, even during leisure hours. We talk on the telephone while we drive, watch television while we read, and conduct business while we listen to the radio. We are all continually overstimulated.
Most of you receive more information from television, computers, radio and satellites than our ancestors of several generations ago ever could have imagined! This year alone you will probably make more appointments, meet more people and go more places than your grandparents did in their entire lives. All this manic rushing around creates a life filled with stress.
Given our current pace, we have little time to relax and cultivate relationships with our spouses, children, friends and nature. Is it any wonder that stress-related diseases are now on the rise? Some studies even suggest that 80-90 percent of all doctor visits are for stress-related complaints. Stress-related illness is implicated in our rapidly escalating health care costs, and health problems attributed to job stress are estimated to cost U.S. businesses $150 billion every year.
I see unrelenting stress as a sickness of epidemic proportions — a “busyness” or “hurry” sickness. But you don’t have to let it overwhelm you. You can choose to slow down, relax and create a life of balance and joy.
Let’s see if you can find any of these signs of “hurry” sickness in your daily life.
1. Do you eat in a rush, eat while standing or walking, or eat while driving?
2. Does your busy life prevent you from spending much time at home? And when you finally get home, are you too tired to do much beyond collapse and “veg out” in front of the television?
3. Do you routinely drive too fast, run yellow lights, constantly change lanes and jockey for position? Are you impatient with other drivers?
4. Do you talk fast, have problems communicating how you feel, and lack the time to give emotional support to your family and friends?
5. Is your life so full of undone chores and responsibilities that relaxing has become almost impossible?
6. When you’re not doing something productive, do you experience anxiety and guilt?
7. Do you often feel tired and run-down, cry easily or have trouble sleeping?
8. Have vacations become more trouble than they’re worth?
What causes our need to rush and discount our own physical health needs? We can blame it on economics — and the need to make enough money to pay for all of our chosen lifestyles. We can blame it on the fact that everything’s moving so fast, and we have to, too. But I believe the real cause is something deeper. By crowding our schedule with “more”—more socializing, more eating, more work, more activity, more appointments—we may be trying to fill the emptiness we feel inside ourselves.
When you constantly direct your attention outward, it’s easy to lose the sense of inner wonder, calmness, balance and beauty where true happiness, joy and peace originate. By slowing down and redirecting your energies inward, not only will you train your brain to relax, you will begin to reestablish the wholesome sense of selfworth necessary to positively change your life.
Is Stress Getting the Best of You?
How do you know when stress is getting the best of you? According to the latest edition of the Harvard Medical School Family Health Guide, physical symptoms of stress include headache, heart disease (two symptoms are atherosclerosis and high blood pressure), insomnia, absence of periods in women, impotence or premature ejaculation in men, digestive tract disturbances (such as ulcerative colitis, irritable bowel syndrome, gastritis, peptic and duodenal ulcers), back pain, frequent colds, shallow breathing, racing heart, herpes virus breakouts, slow wound healing and tight neck and shoulders.
Behavioral symptoms include an increase in smoking, an increase in alcohol consumption, grinding teeth, compulsive eating, an inability to get things done and bossiness. Emotional symptoms of stress include edginess, loneliness, nervousness, crying and a sense of powerlessness. Cognitive symptoms include forgetfulness, inability to make decisions, trouble thinking clearly, thoughts of escape, incessant worrying and lack of creativity.
You may not be able to change your boss’s tendency to favor weekend workdays or control the bumper-tobumper traffic to and from work, but you do have access to some powerful stress-busting tools. The simple fact that you are perusing this book tells me that you may be feeling out of balance and stressed out in one or several areas of your life.
As a holistic lifestyle coach and healthy living counselor for more than 30 years, I’ve worked with thousands of people around the world. I offer my clients simple, yet essential, choices to bring purpose, balance and health back into their lives. Stress may be a fact of modern life, but you don’t have to let it become your way of life. You can become the master of your life, create a lifestyle of vitality and joy, and keep noisome stress to a minimum. The path to contentment is in choosing to have your life in balance.
You Can Do It Too!
Recently, I gave a talk in Los Angeles on “StressLess Living: The Power to Be Your Best,” during which I shared the essential stress-buster choices you’ll read about later in this book. After my presentation, I went into the ladies’ room and found a woman crying. I recognized her. She had been sitting in the front row of the audience and had cried through much of my talk. Since I had no plans for the evening, I asked if she would like to join me for dinner. She was surprised by my unexpected invitation, but she smiled, wiped away a tear, and nodded yes.
Melissa’s story was heartbreaking. Her husband recently had left her for a much younger woman. She was almost one hundred pounds overweight, had no job, was living temporarily with her sister and needed to find a new home for herself and her children. She was so clearly depressed, she was actually considering suicide.
One morning, when she was feeling at her lowest, she took a walk and noticed a flyer for my talk in the window of a natural food store. Something inside her told her she had to attend—even though she had never attended a motivational talk before.
Melissa believed in the ideas I discussed but wasn’t sure how to implement them in her life. She knew she was falling downhill, but she didn’t know how to climb back up. She wanted more than anything to turn her life around—to find a job and a decent place for her children, to lose weight and get back into shape, and to live a balanced life.
After listening to her story, I asked her to consider the possibility that the universe was taking everything away from her so that she could and would, for the first time in her life, put herself first. Like most women, she was so accustomed to putting everyone else’s needs before her own that she took no time for herself.
She was learning the hard way that you can’t run on empty forever. She was being forced to learn that she had to take loving care of herself first, before she could nurture, love and take care of others. I told Melissa that if she were willing to make a real commitment to do whatever it took to live her highest vision, I would be happy to work with her. For the rest of that evening, I asked her to share with me her highest vision and to answer questions like: “If you couldn’t fail and if you were living your best life—right now—what would that look like?” At the end of the evening, I wrote out a walking and meditation/prayer program that she could start the very next morning.
Over the next month, I designed a nutrition program for Melissa that included cleaning out her refrigerator and cupboards and removing all the processed (and junk) foods that didn’t align with her new vision of herself. I taught her how to shop for healthy foods and nutritional supplements, how to make fresh vegetable juices and smoothies, and how to create meals that emphasized organic, natural, colorful foods. As well, I customized a cardio-weights-stretching routine for her that she could do at home or at a gym. I also taught her how to visualize her goals and practice deep breathing and meditation. Finally, she and her sister purchased a water purifier so that they could all benefit from the healing power of alkaline water that has a pH of around 9.0. (For more information on my favorite water purifier, Ionizer Plus, please visit my website: www.SusanSmithJones.com and click on Susan’s Favorite Products.)
As it turned out, Melissa’s favorite stress release and healthy living practice, from everything that I taught her, was making fresh vegetable juices in her new Champion Juicer. (If you visit www.SusanSmithJones.com, and click on Susan’s Favorite Products, you will learn more about this stellar juicer. Not only is there an article you can peruse, there are also a variety of audio interviews that you can listen to at Susan’s Favorite Products.) Her kids loved juicing, too, and actually took it over as one of their daily chores. Of course, I also encouraged them to start drinking more purified water, too. Melissa confessed to me that she couldn’t ever remember drinking more than 3-4 glasses of water a day. When I told her that I drink at least two quarts of purified, alkalinized water every day, and an additional 2-3 glasses of juice made fresh daily in my juicer, she was surprised and motivated to increase her daily water and juice intake.
Melissa was an inspiration to me, her family and all of her friends. Her dedication and commitment created miraculous results. Three weeks after getting her parttime job, she applied for and was hired for a full-time one at a florist shop. Within four months she had saved enough money to move into a large, new apartment with her very happy children.
Today, Melissa is down to her ideal weight, works out regularly, frequents natural food stores and manages the florist shop. She now lives with a sense of freedom, control and power over her life. She learned, firsthand, that breakthroughs and miracles occur when you are willing to live a balanced life—one that minimizes stress and
maximizes joy.
Dying to succeed
Arthur, the president of a major American corporation, came to see me for a consultation. He also was very stressed out, but for different reasons than Melissa. He was impatient, aggressive and sometimes hostile. He was totally unaware of how to make the necessary choices to quell stress and support his well-being. He routinely put in six or seven long, pressure-packed days a week at the office or traveling on business. He always had to be first, always had to be right, and always had to be busy with work to feel worthwhile. Playful behavior did not enter into his lifestyle.
As a fancier of rich foods and a popular high-fat diet, he put away vast quantities of cheese, ice cream, steak, butter, processed foods and cream sauces. He knew his food was loaded with cholesterol and saturated fat, but he loved it all the same. As he told me once, when it came to food, he could resist anything but temptation. His exercise was shifting gears in one of his expensive sports cars.
Arthur was chronically exhausted, but he thought that if he just had more time to spend in his hot tub with a drink, he could easily relax and “unwind.” He had trouble sleeping at night, and experienced frequent headaches and backaches. He also developed several colds and a few bouts of the flu each year, but he assumed that was normal, and usually continued to work when sick. It wasn’t until he began to sink into a deep depression that his wife urged him to have a medical checkup—his first in more than five years.
The doctor’s report came as a shock to Arthur. He was only forty-five years old, but he had high blood pressure and serious hardening of the arteries (a symptom of heart disease). He was told that if he didn’t make some changes in his way of life immediately, he was headed for a heart attack within six months. He also was headed toward needing quadruple-bypass heart surgery.
As providence would have it, the day after receiving the doctor’s report, a friend of Arthur’s told him about my holistic health private retreats and gave him several of my books and audio programs. Arthur quickly sought me out. During the months we worked together, Arthur truly became a great inspiration to me, partly because his transformation was so dramatic. I had never worked with anyone quite so stressed and desperate, or who led such an unhealthful life.
Fortunately, we were able to direct Arthur’s innate drive to succeed toward a wholesome goal. During our first visit he made an important personal choice—he chose to make a commitment to change his life and restore the health of his younger years. I immediately started Arthur off with meditation and mindfulness training. As I explained to him, according to the cover story in Time magazine on “The Science of
Meditation” (August 4, 2003), meditation can help people reduce the psychological and physical effects of high stress. In the study, the participants who underwent “mindfulness training” experienced an average 54 percent reduction in psychological distress after three months on the program. The group that did not receive the meditation training experienced no significant reduction in their stress. (You’ll learn more about meditation in Part 2 of this book.) Arthur took to this meditation discipline like a butterfly to buddleia (that’s a beautiful, colorful butterfly-attracting plant).
The other practice I prescribed for him was bodywork at least two times a week. He worked with me and a variety of other bodywork practitioners, exploring massage, acupressure, acupuncture, aromatherapy and energy healing so that he could determine what was of most help to him. All of these disciplines can help reduce tension, relieve headaches and backaches, improve sleep and bring relaxation, calm and balance back into your life. A skilled massage therapist can knead tensed muscles and help dissipate any stress you may be holding in.
Today, Arthur and his entire family are the picture of health. Recently they all participated in a 10-K run, and the following day they left on a two-week health and fitness vacation.
As Melissa and Arthur learned, choosing to live a balanced, stressless life, one filled with vibrant health, means much more than just feeling fine. It’s about body, mind, and spirit working as one—harmoniously. It’s hard to celebrate life when you’re totally stressed out or when you’re burdened with aches and pains, lethargy, obesity, heart disease, cancer, arthritis and the other prevalent diseases and ailments of our society. In my decades in holistic health work, I have seen thousands of people markedly improve their well-being and enrich their lives through the simple lifestyle and behavior changes that you’ll read about in detail in Part 2 of this book. But for now, please give this some thought: What changes can you make in your life today or this week that will put you on the path to looking and feeling great? And what can you do in the next hour that will make a positive difference in how you feel. Choose to take action NOW!
About Dr Susan Smith Jones
For more than three decades, Susan Smith Jones, Ph.D., has been one of the world’s most recognizable names and faces in the fields of health, fitness, and balanced living. In addition to being the author of 17 books and a variety of audio programs, and hundreds of magazine articles, Susan taught students, staff, and faculty at UCLA how to be healthy and fit for 30 years! A frequent guest on talk shows, she is also renowned as a holistic health consultant and a much sought-after motivational speaker to community, corporate, and spiritual groups worldwide. Susan has assisted thousands of people in becoming more aware of how their food and lifestyle choices affect their physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being.
To order BE HEALTHY~STAY BALANCED: 21 Simple Choices to Create More Joy & Less Stress as well as all of Susan’s other books and audio programs, please call: 1-800-843-5743 PT or visit: www.SusanSmithJones.com
To receive a special gift from Susan, to find out more about her work and life, or listen to her free telephone seminars, please visit: www.PagingSusan.com.
Top Time Tips To Help You Live a Less Complex Life by Robyn Pearce
1. 'No' is your most powerful time management tool.
When we know what our values are, and when we have a clear set of goals in all areas of our lives, we're in a much stronger position to politely and appropriately say 'no' to potential time-stealers and less relevant activities.
2. Every week, block in a few important non-urgent actions.
It's too easy to get caught up in everlasting deadlines. Change that emphasis by making appointments with yourself, written into your diary or organiser, to work on one or two activities per week of long-term and long-lasting value. Not sure what you could do? Think of the big tasks put off until you 'have time'. Almost certainly they can be broken down into small chunks.
3. Constantly ask, 'What is my highest priority right now?'
This is a great focusing question. When applied we find it easier to stay on task with activities that really make a difference. We're also less likely at the end of the day to find we've not dealt with our highest priorities.
4. 'How can I do this task more efficiently?'
Become a 'walking question mark'. There are always better ways to do things. Every time you do a task, look for a shortcut, a way to trim a few seconds or a minute off the task. They mount up to a surprising total over a week.
How do you manage your paperwork? Do you put things away when finished with them? How many unnecessary steps do you take in a day? Notice how often you say in frustration, ‘Bother it. I forgot to get (or do) ..... '.
Time-saving efficiencies are all around us, but most people don't go looking for them. Instead, they just complain about lack of time!
5. Block in regular sanity gaps.
Why be wonderfully efficient if we don't take time to enjoy life and the amazing world we live in? When did you last take a complete weekend off - no email, no business calls, no responsibilities other than the people you're with?
Many of us know it's important to clean out old files and regularly defrag our computers - it's a house-keeping process that helps them run better. Think of taking regular time off as a defrag of your brain. You'll come back fresher and you'll also produce better results (just like the computer!) Give your conscious and sub-conscious time to talk to each other - you'll be amazed at the results.
6. Manage your energy well and time looks after itself.
Around the world I'm hearing the phrase 'energy management' more and more. Think of your energy levels as your filter or indicator as to whether you're doing the right things.
Sluggish energy is a powerful clue - if something isn't flowing smoothly there are almost always ways to either change activity or improve things.
A good filter question: 'What's blocking my energy here? What can I do about it?'
7. Eliminate clutter in all areas of your life.
This links in part with the previous point. When you walk into a clean tidy environment, how do you feel? The more you're connected to that environment, the more impact it will have on you. Someone else's messy and untidy space may or may not have an obvious effect on you, but I guarantee you'll virtually never want to linger.
Some people only sort out possessions and 'stuff' when they move houses; others do it every spring. Run a constant 'clutter filter' on yourself. Make it part of your daily routine and it’s never a ‘big’ job.
Instead of saying 'I'll just put it here while I think about it', get into the habit of letting go. The reality is, even if you do think about it again, why would you want to? Old 'stuff' is seldom used again by you. Why not recycle it and let someone else have the chance to get value. Imagine every item you hang on to has an invisible silver thread connecting you to it. Does it energise you or pull you down?
8. Don't make email the first thing of the day.
If you get hooked into email first thing in the day it takes over. In fact, it's an addictive medium. Instead, you take control of your day.
Spend time on the most important tasks for the day, and (unless it's truly vital) don't look at email until at least mid-morning, and then only for a defined chunk of time. Have two or three email slots through the day and you'll keep on top of most of it, with the occasional bigger catch up session.
If people rely on email for urgent information they're using it wrongly. A phone is still almost always the best way to alert someone that there's something urgent waiting. Communication is only what's received, not what is sent. How do you know someone has read your urgent epistle unless you've spoken to them?
Robyn Pearce is an international productivity and time management speaker and author. As a a mother of 6 and grandmother of 10 she has conquered her own time challenges. Robyn works with clients around the globe helping them solve their time problems. She's an author of five books and many other products and one of less than 10% of speakers worldwide to hold the highest professional speaking accreditation – Certified Speaking Professional. See http://www.gettingagrip.com for articles and other free information, including a fortnightly Top Time Tips e-zine.
Top Ten Tips for Working Flexibly
by Kerry Fallon Horgan, CEO Flexibility At Work and co-author, “Time On, Time Out! Flexible Work Solutions to Keep Your Life in Balance”.
If you work part time, job share or have another flexible work arrangement here are some important tips to make it work.
1. Clarify expectations with your manager and colleagues
There needs to be a clear agreement between yourself, your manager, colleagues and people you supervise. This agreement could include: what to do in situations where you are needed and not at the workplace; guidelines clarifying the circumstances in which you can be contacted at home; the provision of technology at home to assist work from home in an urgent situation; and names of back-up people for unforeseen circumstances.
2. Be realistic about what can be achieved in the time available
If you are working flexibly, say in a part-time role, the job must be appropriately designed, to represent a realistic view of the output achievable in the time available. Examine which tasks can be done in your reduced hours or how the job might be done differently. You may need to reallocate tasks to others.
3. Structure your week to your full advantage
For example, a five-day fortnight may be better than a two and a half day week when it comes to paying for parking, and can save on travelling time and transport costs. Consider negotiating other types of flexible work arrangements rather than just part-time work. Working flexible hours or work from home may be a better option for you.
4. Write it down
Whether or not your workplace has a policy on part-time work or job sharing, it is a good idea to have a written agreement with your manager so you both know where you stand and what to expect. The sorts of issues you can cover are:
- the hours, days, starting and finishing times to be worked;
- the period of time the part-time work is for;
- whether there is a right to return to full-time work if desired; and
- if at any time, with an agreed notice period, your arrangement can be altered.
5. Communicate! Communicate! Communicate!
Make sure everyone in the workplace, particularly the person answering the phone, knows your schedule. If you change your schedule let everyone know what the changes are as soon as possible. If you have clients, let them know when you can be contacted. For example, you could put times you are available in your email signature.
6. Don’t let your career suffer
Make it clear that your career goals have not changed just because you are working part-time, and that you want to be considered for the same opportunities such as training and acting in higher duties. Discuss what training opportunities are available and ensure that you continually update your skills. If a job with higher duties becomes available, ask to be considered.
7. Maintain good working relationships
Keep in contact and ensuring that lines of communication are kept open. Be aware that one-way communication such as e-mail can do more to shut down communication than enhance it. Establish a regular time for phoning your manager and anyone designated to assist with your work. It is your responsibility to keep these relationships working well, and this can include checking with your manager and colleagues to find out and resolve any problems they may be experiencing with your work arrangement.
8. Be strategic in your use of time
Attend key meetings and ensure that any presentations you need to give are on the meeting agenda. If you are working flexible hours, there should be core times when all staff are present, for staff meetings and important announcements. Attend as many work social functions as possible, and continue to be visible in strategic places. If you are on extended leave or working from home, a ‘keep-in-touch’ program is important.
9. Get regular performance feedback
If you are not working full-time you will miss some of the informal opportunities for feedback on your work. Make an effort to obtain regular feedback on your performance.
10. Understand what you want to achieve from part time work
Make sure that your flexible work arrangement is helping you achieve your goals. If it isn’t working for you get help from a life coach or others who have succeeded in gaining the work/life balance they desired.
Kerry Fallon Horgan is an author, trainer, life coach, public speaker and workplace advisor. She is the CEO of Flexibility At Work and the Womens Healing Org International. Her background includes chairing the major Advisory Body to the State Government on Women’s Issues, as a Board Member of Women & Management, Past President of The Financial Counsellors Association and as a diversity consultant to the St James Ethics Centre.
Kerry is a Master practitioner in the Strategic Relationship Manangement Coaching Method and Play of Life tool. With Dr Carlos Raimundo, she trains therapists, psychologists, counsellors, coaches and managers in this international award winning method. She works as an executive and life coach with this method.
Kerry is co-author of “Time On, Time Out! Flexible Work Solutions to Keep Your Life in Balance” (now available as an ebook) & "Financial Counselling: A practical guide to everyday problems." Her book, CDs, Video and free tips, articles and e-news on work life balance are available at the Flexibility At Work website. Her leading edge "Creating & Managing Flexible Workplaces" e-learning program has just been launched. Access a demonstration of this e-program here!
Video clip of CEO Rob Davidson (Click here). Rob talks about leading in a flexible work environment and Flexibility At Work.
Creating Flexible Workplaces by Kerry Fallon Horgan, CEO, Flexibility At Work
Globalization, technological advances, an ageing workforce, new workplace values of Gen X and Y's and diversity in the workplace have all "upped the stakes" for employers to successfully implement and manage flexible work practices.
The key for many lies in becoming "Employers of Choice", organisations that are able to attract and retain skilled staff often because they have established a workplace culture that supports flexible work practices.
There are real bottom-line incentives to do so including increased productivity, better customer service, enhanced legal compliance, improved morale, reduced absenteeism, greater overall effectiveness, and an ability to adapt readily to market changes.
There's also that very profitable, but less concise notion of "discretionary effort" - where workers go that extra mile because they believe that employers are doing the right thing by them.
So what flexible practices do employees want?
For the past two years I have been privileged to be part of the judging team for the National HR Awards in the Health and Wellbeing category with Award finalists coming from a range of industry sectors. While these workplaces offered most of the more common flexible work arrangements such as part-time work, job-sharing and work from home, some innovative options were:
- Sensis introduced an option to purchase up to two weeks leave by reducing annual salary;
- HBA Health Insurance introduced 8 week's paid parental leave and an additional six months of parental leave beyond the first 12 months;
- Main Roads WA's provided an innovation day and phased retirement;
- Greenslopes Private Hospital (GPH) provided cultural leave and one week of extra leave for night staff.
Unfortunately all too many workplaces are still saying, "Well that's OK in the ideal world but not in reality, not for us" or "We've tried it and it didn't work".
This is largely because organisations would prefer to stay as they are than face the challenges that confront them. So, they don't reap the benefits of this new way of working. They'll keep trying to fit "square pegs into round holes" by fitting workers' around the jobs rather than making the jobs fit the best people for the work involved.
So how do we overcome the challenges of implementing these practices?
Every workplace culture is unique, has different barriers and needs different solutions to the challenges that present. The issues can be attitudinal, can be based on misperceptions, systems problems, workloads, fear of the effect on career, leadership and managerial blocks. The list goes on.
To address the barriers, Flexibility At Work developed a systematic culture change approach. This involves developing the business case; analysing organisation specific issues; developing strategies to overcome the challenges; engaging senior management; addressing management issues; targeted, consistent and regular communication; engaging employees; and evaluating the program.
Sounds straight forward, but the problem is that organisations only change if their people change and it has to start from the top. If leaders and managers are working excessive hours, not taking annual leave and not spending time in their outside roles, attitudinal and behavior change is extremely difficult to achieve. No amount of policy making, values statements and systems implementation will change that organisation to one that enables work/life balance.
New and innovative approaches are required. Usually organisations only deal with issues at the "tip of the iceberg". The real barriers to change happen below the surface where behaviors, attitudes, beliefs and mental models do not reflect stated values and policy pronouncements.
So before you contract yet another HR agency to fill that much needed position, take a good look at whether or not, what you do, reflects what you say you do, and look at how you can make flexibility a reality in your workplace.